Stay Strong!
Do not make your emotions poignant for people to commiserate you for what you have been through. Remember, you are not alone in this world who has suffered. Life is tough for everyone in one way or the other, it has it's own share of sufferings and struggles and they are not to be sympathized for. Do not trivialize them with your tears and lamentations! The pain of your struggles, despair, anger, fear, frustration and the dignity of your emotions is your's to keep. Tears that flow frequently, loose their value. Revere your struggles because they give you experience, make you strong, self dependent and sometimes even empathetic. They make you warrior and warriors never belittle their battle scars by complaining how cruel their life has been!